Friday, April 30, 2010

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"Better City-Better Life" 2010 Shanghai World Expo

2010 Shanghai World Expo is now being held in the city of Shanghai, from May 1 to October 31, 2010. The theme of this exposition is "Better City – Better Life" and signifies Shanghai's new status in the 21st century as the "next great world city". It is the most expensive Expo in the history of the world's fairs. It is also the largest World's Fair site ever at 5.28 square km. More than 190 countries and more than 50 international organizations have registered to participate in the Shanghai World Expo. China expects to receive almost 100 foreign leaders and millions of people from across the world to come and visit the World Expo. More than 70–100 million visitors are expected to visit the expo which is the largest in history.

I am very impressed with the idea and the scale of this largest ever World Expo and will definitely find time to visit to really experience myself.

While many countries promote the idea of " Better City- Better Life" through different theme pavilions in Shanghai, the most important part is how we can bring the ideas of bettering our city and life to be implemented right in our own city.

Let's look to our city, Hong Kong. What can we do to make sure we have better city for ourselves and next generation?

To understand how well a city is doing, one can instantly think of the living standard of the city. In other words, its abilities to survive. It's true that every city is trying its best to survive. Some cities can survive better than other cities. Some can barely survive and some survive abundantly.

While we can focus exclusively on the structural or mechanical aspect of it by bettering the money making machinery to raise our living standard, we're somehow aware of the fact that it does not guarantee that we can better our life in this manner alone. Stress, anxiety and depression are inevitable products for many people living in such a metropolitan city of Hong Kong. Raising children is getting more difficult to make them more able, happier and self-determined people; while the drug education and prevention programs are not enough to make a drug free Hong Kong that any threats of drug abuse can take away their life easily. Unfair access or disclosure of information by manipulation can create an unfair playing fields in certain sectors for the advantages of a few, like the marketing tactics employed by property developers, the complicated investment products packaged by investment bankers, etc. Probably you can name more of the areas that need our concern and effort to change the conditions for real quality of better living.

Yet, looking at a wide spectrum of life and people, with majority of faces in apathy, grief, pain, resentment, anger, boredom and relatively lesser faces of strong interest and enthusiasm in Hong Kong, one will not need to lose hope or confidence easily. Why is it so? When you look further, you will find behind all these unhappy masks of many people are basically good people! What one simply needs to do is to look, explore and apply better means and ways to enhance the quality of our city and our life.

One honestly cannot change much. Yet any change starts on an individual basic. When one person changes, he can influence another person in his vicinity, and then the effect can be multiplied.

Let's work for a better Hong Kong!

Monday, March 29, 2010

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How can you make your pay beyond minimum wage?

It has been a very controversial issue whether we should have minimum wage policy in Hong Kong; and even if introduced but how to determine the minimum wage to cater to the interests of various sectors of the community. As of today, we have not yet come to any conclusion on the minimum wage policy in Hong Kong.

When we look at the actual reality of various economies of the world, one can easily tell that equality of the distribution of wealth is not attainable; and in many instances we see extreme disparity between the rich and the poor.

While men are born equally with many rights, the outcome however will depend on how one uses his or her own rights. As we would like to examine the workable possibilities to effect better change and control in our life, the subject of “fate” or “destiny” will be of no use for discussion due to its uncontrollable factors outside the scope of “what can be done” to help each other to exercise their rights for the benefit of himself and others.

Here I would like to offer a free webcast to the readers of my blog. This webcast also includes some drills of how to apply them in real life that you can do because something can be real to you only when you know how to apply or use it.

The regular cost of this webcast training including the review of your answers of the drills is HK$150 per person. Now you can watch it free on my blog but without any review of your answers. It cannot be delivered to any group for staff or business training purposes without any prior consent.

If you think someone may benefit from watching this free webcast, please feel free to forward to your friends that they would need to watch it on the same terms. I hope it helps to give you some ideas on how to live by exchanging abundantly in your life.

If you would like to have this webcast training or a workshop (either in English or Cantonese) to look into more of the subject for your staff to raise morale and productivity in your company, please write me an email (hkexecutives@gmail.com)






Sunday, February 14, 2010

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Are you celebrating your Valentine's Day with love and admiration to your soul mate?

Today, it's the first time that we have the Valentine's Day and the Chinese New Year on the same date in the last 57 years and we will only have the same occurrence 38 years later. Valentine's Day is no longer restricted to be a western custom, but is getting more popular in Hong Kong too. Whom you will celebrate your valentine day is a very important person to your life.

No matter you are engaged in a relationship or in a marriage, it’s the aspect of life which can easily make or break your life. Many stories either prove them to be lighting one’s life or breaking one’s heart. Some could go so emotional that one’s universe could only contain the other person one loved, with everything else out of the sight of the two people. “Love” could be used either in the right or wrong direction depending on whether it could provide additional life force to lift up all dynamics of one’s life. Is “love” a trap or a channel for more happiness, joy and freedom?

In fact, when we deal with another person, especially in such a close loving relationship, we are not meeting with that person alone. A person has many dynamics of life, including himself, group, mankind, the world, the physical universe, spiritual beingness, etc. besides the loving and sexual relationship. So when two people meet, they are meeting with their dynamics of life. It is a fact no matter whether you realize it or not. What conditions and how well each is doing on various aspect of life can greatly influence the condition and quality of the relationship.

An individual as a unit of human being, has his or her own rights of rationality, self-determinism, and rights of own goals and purposes in various dynamics of life. Though the individual may not know how to exercise or use his or her own rights, we have no right to deprive the person of his or her inherent rights.

When two people meet for a relationship, it should be something to help each other in enhancing but not suppressing the rights of each other. They are no longer working on other determinism but able to maintain one’s self determinism by pan-determinism; which is able to see the viewpoint of each other to find the best viewpoint for the interest of both parties. In other words, there are two heads, not one head only in the relationship. However, most of the time, we will easily lose our rights to each other as “love” is supposed to be expressed in this manner by many bad examples of people around us or one simply cannot control one's emotion or behavior with some strange ideas of using bad control in the relationship. "Love" can be used as a weapon of control to the other person rather than a platform for exchange of life force in abundance. Sooner or later, one cannot find anything one can admire from the other person in such relationship. No wonder why so many people do not really enjoy their relationship though they could not separate from each other for whatever reasons, or continue to break up relationship one after one.

Of course, one gets what one sees; and one only gets what one thinks should be. If one only wanted to use relationship to trap another person, one not only trapped another person but also being trapped.

It’s time to reveal what you really want from a relationship, how you can contribute to make this relationship happen and how both of you can enhance the life force with each other. By giving or allowing the rights to each other, you will set yourself and your partner free . And only then you can have a true loving relationship with admiration. Such relationship can be so powerful to uplift all aspects of your life to such a high level that you may not envision could possibly happen to both of you!

Happy Valentine's Day!